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Children as Messengers

A kid’s job is to be a kid.

It’s not to pass on messages between his or her parents.

A parent’s job is to communicate with the other parent, no matter how difficult that might be. If direct communication is impossible, there are other options. A parent’s job is to know better than to involve a child in the dispute between his or her parents, and that includes using that child as a messenger.

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COVID-19 and Parenting (2)

The COVID-19 pandemic is now our everyday reality. It has impacted the very way we live our day-to-day lives. It has affected our children’s routines, schooling and play, our physical and social relationships, and in many instances, the state of our bank account. It has introduced uncertainty, concern and even anxiety into our days and nights – in ways which are sometimes more obvious and less obvious, and therefore more difficult to detect. The world is on edge.

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"I am separated and I can't cope"

Question: "I am separated and I can't cope. I am so devastated, I cannot even face dealing with all of the issues which I have to tackle, now that the relationship is over. What am I to do? Where do I even start."

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