I am AJ Jakubowska - family law lawyer and mediator. I am also human - I understand what can happen when relationships end. Lots of uncertainty, many different emotions, lots of questions. Sometimes it can feel virtually impossible to stay sane. Pressure. Concern. Cost.

This podcast features my comments on various topics related to separation, and my interviews with other humans who help when relationships end – people who look after legal issues, who mediate, who look after hearts and minds, as well as finances. People who could help you plan your future. What you will hear is NOT legal advice. These are dialogues primarily about the human aspect of separation. We try to stay away from legal lingo. It’s humans talking to humans.

I hope that something you hear will help you navigate your way to a sane split.

NEW EPISODES EVERY TWO WEEKS

Tips on Christmas Parenting After Separation

Children of separated parents look forward to the magic of Christmas, just like their peers from intact families. It IS possible to maintain the magic and work out arrangements that reduce the possibility of stress and anxiety for the kids, so they can focus on Santa, gifts and treats. In this episode, I offer some tips on how to discuss Christmas with the other parent and when, and what do so if you hit a snag in your dialogue. I also discuss what happens when parents cannot agree.

My email is: aj@jakubowska.ca